Finally Getting Your Kids to Listen 2.0

Subscribers only 1: Communication Models

(24:30) covering Communication Models - communication is an ongoing process between 2 people. The key training is something I call is the Four State Communication Model, and the Four Ways off Leaders and Followers. These will be cornerstone reference points going forward.

Subscribers only 2: Eye Accessing Cues - aka What to LQQK for!

(20:45) Knowing what to look for, you can literally start to SEE how other people think and are processing the things you're saying.

Subscribers only 3: Auditory Cues - or what you LISTEN for

(19:31) In this lesson, we're digging into how the specific words people use very often tells you exactly what matters to them MOST in communication. And you can then USE those channels to get your point across to them.

Subscribers only 4: Developmental Stages

(19:31) This is a quick overview of developmental stages so you can dial in your communication in a reasonable way for the person with whom you are speaking. Overloading a 4 year old with a 12-step process doesn't cut the mustard. (kinesthetic - see clip 3 for what I mean.)

Subscribers only 5: Dealing with Special Situations

(20:06) This gets into some murky topics beyond developmental stages - oppositional defiance, kids who've been abused, and more. Sometimes kids just need special handling, and sometimes you need to get domain experts to help you navigate a child who's struggling. There's no shame in asking for help.

Subscribers only 6: How to have a Great Ask

(14:05) This is my personal favorite out of this whole course - HOW to address pressure, consequences, having clarity in your requests... and the BEST PART... is when you've used this enough that your kids start using it to make requests, and they verbalize the level of pressure they're under when stressed.

Subscribers only Bonus: 6 Golden Tickets

If you've ever offered support, guidance, or input to someone and had them get defensive - that suggests you're OUT of rapport... but what if there was a ladder to climb, to bridge from their world to yours and the advice you want to give.